Are your dreams real or just a fantasy?

Women's Meeting at the Rainbow Theatre - London, UK.

This week's meeting was the second session of the the second Parts of Me series, which is focusing on bringing to existence what does not exist. In the first session we spoke about being clear of what you want. One can't pursue a dream that hasn't come to mind yet. 

Ludymilla sharing how she pursued her dreams against all odds

Women have very fertile imaginations

This week we spoke about being able to differentiate between real dreams and fantasies. Women have very fertile imaginations and often get caught in fantasies. It is common to find a woman unfairly comparing her partner to characters in movies and soap operas and getting upset when he doesn't live up to them, or still dreaming about the ex-boyfriend who has now settled down in another relationship, and what about those who get involved with married men, imagining them leaving their wives to settle with them.

Is yours a dream or a fantasy?

Your dreams should be unique.

You may ask, "How can I tell whether the dream I have in mind is real or a fantasy?" By measuring the effort you've put into this dream. Just like an athlete beats all odds and trains meticulously throughout the year for a tournament he believes he can win, when your dream is real, you do the same. You are not waiting for a fairytale ending. You have a conviction inside of you, which leads you to action. 

Put fantasies behind, as they stand in the way of true dreams. Magic doesn't exist! Dreams take hard work and need to based on the foundation of your convictions. We finalised by advising those present never to build dreams out of comparing themselves to others. We are all unique and so should our dreams be. Dream your own dreams, and not someone else's!